I announced llvm-abi, a library I created to generate ABI-compliant LLVM IR, on the LLVM mailing list. It seems like other front-end developers are very happy to see this kind of change and are furthermore interested in changes to Clang to expose its ABI code generation functionality to ensure that everyone is using a single high quality code base rather than duplicating the same functionality over and over again.
The llvm-abi library started as a necessity for the Loci compiler, since it needs to generate C functions and must generate code that integrates very closely with C. Unfortunately I found this was a very involved task and required lots of target-dependent logic so I ended up pushing the functionality out of the compiler into a separate library so that other front-ends could benefit and code could be shared.
In the (admittedly unlikely) event that you’re a developer of an LLVM front-end, I strongly recommend using llvm-abi for your ABI compliance needs, particularly since the longer term plan is to have it share code with Clang. If you have any problems just raise an issue on the llvm-abi GitHub project.